As I think about these few weeks of 2015, one thing I am confident about is that I refuse to be bogged down with a lot of BS. I learned long ago that I get to ultimately choose how I respond and how I react to every situation and individual that comes my way. I can look at the positive side of things and reject anything that I deem negative or deal with it and be a bitter angry [black] woman. It is my life and I am determined to live it like its golden because it is.
So, when it comes to negativity, I am returning it all to the sender (who or whatever that may be) because I am at the point in my life that has me deciding what is really important and what is not. Yes, I accept people for who they are and don’t always hold them responsible for their actions (they may be dealing with a lot) but, having said that, I am also not going to sit around and allow them to treat me any ol’ kind of way. I will just simply separate myself from them and those said issues, pray for them and release back to their Maker. Yes, I will adopt the return to sender mentality immediately and move on along towards my greatness and with no regrets or second thoughts. Hmmm!
I implore you to never associate yourself with anything that is going to push you over the edge or bring out the absolute worst in you because that will reflect on who you are as a person and will have you going in the opposite direction of what you desire. You too must adopt the ‘Return that foolishness to the Sender’ mentality. And, if by chance you are that negative person (we all can be), work a little harder to become a better individual.
If you continue to stay true to yourself and your earnest convictions, you will certainly attract the right people into your life and circle. You will begin to get the packages that everyone is running home to grab up quickly and open with their bare hands. You know, the package that will have you checking the delivery status every hour because you are just that excited that it is coming.
So, never hold on to packages that are toxic, that have not been scanned for security and that has broken fragments inside as they are just too heavy to carry. When you get one of the following heavy packages, do not hesitate one moment to Return to Sender:
Return to Sender Jealously
Return to Sender Wrath
Return to Sender Envy
Return to Sender Anger
Return to Sender Judgment
Return to Sender Gossip
Return to Sender Lies
Return to Sender Self-Hate
Return to Sender Low Self Esteem
Return to Sender Depression
Return to Sender Hypocrisy
Return to Sender Personal Attacks
Return to Sender a Lying Tongue
Return to Sender Cheating
Return to Sender Anything that Makes You Uncomfortable
In life, we do not have to sign for or accept every package that is addressed to us. Be very cautious and be willing to return any packages to the sender!
TODAY, I’ve given you total permission (not that you really need MY permission) to stop, speak up and return all junk to the sender. Allow me to write it a little clearer and say, “If someone comes to you with a bunch of mess, send that ish back to them as ‘undeliverable’!
Move Forward In Righteousness XOXO ♥